「Say」と「tell」の使い分け

By Di on 2月 5 2022
Two sheep talking

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The verbs "say" and "tell" are very similar in that they both describe communication between people. But we use them quite differently.

Look at this conversation between two friends, A and B, about a third friend, C. Friend A uses the verb “say”, while B uses “tell”. Can you figure out why? 

A: I think C said she was going to be here.
B: She told me she wasn’t.
A: Really? I was sure she said she was.
B: Well, I’m pretty sure she told me she wasn’t. I'd better call her.

Both A & B are reporting what C said, so why does A use “said” and B use “told”?

Simply put

Here's a simple way to remember the difference is simply:

  • You say something.
  • You tell someone something.

Another way of thinking about this is to consider two questions.

  • Say what?
  • Tell who?

Deeper explanation 

This is the more the grammatical explanation. 

To understand this, you have to understand direct objects and indirect objects.

Here's a simple subject-verb-object (S-V-O) sentence: I called my boss. In this sentence, my boss is the direct object

We can add an indirect object: I told you I called my boss. In this sentence, you are the indirect object, and the point of the sentence—my boss—is the same as the previous example. 

  • To say” is a transitive verb that takes a direct object = what was said.
    • Eg: I said I was finished.
  • To tell” is a two-object verb, which means it needs to be followed by both an indirect object and a direct object = who you told, and what you told them.
    • Eg: I told you I was finished. 

Let’s look at the first two lines of the conversation again to see how it works.

A: I think C (subjectsaid (verb) she was going to be here (direct object).
B: She (subject)  told (verb) me (indirect object) she wasn’t (direct object).

So ask yourself: Do you simply have something to say? Or do you want to tell someone about it? The answer to that question will help you find the right verb to use.